When you look back at your life do you ever wonder, where did it go? Why am I already 43 years old when I swear I was just in high school? That's how it felt this weekend. My high school friend Lexy Winters lost his battle with cancer and had his memorial services this past weekend. It was bittersweet. It was extremely sad to see Lexy's family in so much pain as they relived his life, good times and bad. However, it was wonderful to see people I haven't seen in 20+ years!! It was as if he brought us all together to reminisce and talk about old times. I even ran across my very first boyfriend, that was sweet. He swears he still has a stuffed animal that I gave to him so many years ago :)
So you see, it was great to reunite, but what a horrible occasion to bring us together.
After the services, we went back to my brother Jeff's house in Gilroy and we spent the night and woke up to more family. My Uncle Rick, Aunt Pam, and cousins Travis & Allie came to have brunch with us. What a delight :) It has been many years since we've seen them and I could hardly recognize Allie when she walked up the step, which is so sad, she's family! We had a delicious brunch and got to catch up on old times, it was a wonderful visit. We will continue to stay in touch & we're already planning to have a family reunion this summer!!
You must live for TODAY! Tomorrow is never guaranteed. If you don't get back in touch with loved ones or friends, you may never get the opportunity to do so. Do it TODAY, get reacquainted, it's only uncomfortable if you let it be. They're probably having a hard time picking up the phone as well. Be the bigger person and take the first step.
Peace to you all ♥ Love, Genie
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You do and always will continue to amaze me. Everytime I read an entry I realize why you are the love of my life. You care so deeply for all. You want the best for everyone. You see the value in family and friends and understand that they are such a big part of life. Life does go too fast. We need to use our time wisely and recognize what is really importatant. Slow down and smell the roses, as the saying goes. I LOVE so very much!! John
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